Tuesday, September 1, 2020

August Books One: Nonfiction and Poetry

 Happy Meteorological Autumn! I am grateful for the shortening days, the rain, and the slightly cooler temperatures. And for books, of course. It's always book season around here! Here's the first part of my August book list:

White Trash: The 400-Year Untold History of Class in America by Nancy Isenberg

I got this book about 4 years ago, not long after it was published, but then stuck it on a shelf and hauled it around, unread, every time we moved. Now that it has been 5 1/2 months since our local library closed, and I have not had time sensitive books moving constantly in and out, I have turned to my bookshelves more frequently and I decided it was a good time to read this book. I’m only sorry I didn’t read it sooner, because it’s a great book. 

The book is a historical look at the situation of poor white people and how they have been characterised from the settlement of what is now the US to the present day. She jumps right in by busting the myth that there is no class structure in the US, an idea which has always been ridiculous, but continues to be believed by some. From colonial times, poor white people were considered ‘waste people’ useful only for labour. Thomas Jefferson called them ‘rubbish.’ The names used to label such people evolved and some were specific to areas of the South, until at some point, ‘white trash’ became a kind of umbrella term.

The book begins in colonial times, moves through the formation of the country, and continues to the present. The book was published in 2016, so this is where her analysis ends. The author makes her points using examples from various aspects of culture—politics, economics, education, popular culture, etc. It is highly readable, very informative, and a thought-provoking read. For anyone interested in moving beyond the flag-waving nonsense of American exceptionalism and the myths about a ‘classless society,’ or for someone who just wants to understand the culture a little bit better, this is a great book, which I highly recommend.

Too Much and Never Enough: How My Family Created the World’s Most Dangerous Man by Mary L. Trump (audiobook read by the author)

I’ve always believed that cruel, evil people are created. They’re not born that way, but are damaged by others and for whatever reasons, lack the ability to deal with the pain of the damage inflicted upon them. This does not excuse their actions—we all have painful experiences in our lives and it is our responsibility to deal with them in whatever healthy ways we can. I understand the need for self-protection, but I also know that the only way to get beyond the damage is to walk through the pain, not to try to shield ourselves from it. So while I understand why and how cruel, evil people behave as they do, this doesn’t let them off the hook. They should be held accountable. 

I’d listened to a couple of interviews with the author and was intrigued by her story, so when I saw this title appear in the ‘new to library’ e-audiobook section of the library website, I borrowed it. It is a good illustration of how pain and dysfunction can be passed down through the generations. It also shows how, in one family, people can create coping mechanisms for themselves. Some hurt themselves while   others set out to protect themselves by hurting others. The author’s father was in the former category and the damaged individual who became president is in the latter. It’s a striking example of what monsters can be created in families, with the help of society at large. 

The author is a clinical psychologist and she explains her arguments in a clear way that a layperson can understand. From a personal perspective, I was struck by how some of the family of origin dynamics were the same in my own situation. It was interesting to me to see the similarities and differences in my response to those circumstances as opposed to the offspring she talks about in the book.

Life and Death in the Third Reich by Peter Fritzsche


Wintering: How I Learned to Flourish When Life Became Frozen by Katherine May

This is a memoir written about a time in the author’s life when a lot of highly stressful events were thrust upon her. As is so often the case, these events caused her to rethink various aspects of her life and make some changes. She came to see these times as winter situations, in that as in the natural world, we all need winter times to regroup and get ready for the next season of our lives. As she is writing about her own life, she also talks to others who have had serious issues and have grown as a result, learning to cope and thrive. 

I was eager to read this book when I first read an essay by the author. As soon as we were able to place holds again at the library, I requested this one. I loved this book. Her metaphors didn’t work as well for me as they do for others, simply because I do not struggle in winter. That’s a summer thing. She spoke to someone who suffers from Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) and while I experience most of the same symptoms, I experience them in summer, not winter. The light is agitating to me and I feel at home in the dark, so I shuddered when she described the ways in which this woman keeps her house brightly lit throughout the winter. I rely on winter to recover from summer, so that sort of thing would be a disaster for me. That aside, I enjoyed her story and those of the people she talked to and I liked the way she came to embrace winter. It’s a wonderful book.

How to Fly (in Ten Thousand Easy Lessons): Poems by Barbara Kingsolver

I loved this poetry collection, which includes poems about nature, knitting, life, relationships, and a family trip to Italy which included the poet’s mother-in-law, whose parents came from there. 

I hope there is a lot of good reading ahead for September!


12 comments:

Brenda said...

Thank you so much for your refreshing blog. These books sound intriguing...won't read the one about the political figure as it is so stressful right now...I am sure you know how I feel about all of that...reason I have deleted so many of my blogs on favorites...plus they complain about the constraints for the Covid protection...you are just the best...thank you thank you thank you...

Linda said...

I will be picking up the Kingsolver ASAP. I too have White Trash sitting around. Time to go dig it out.

Shari Burke said...

I know what you mean, Brenda. I wasn't going to read it either, but an interview got me interested. And it was fairly short, so I decided to give it a try. :-)

Linda--White Trash is fascinating, particularly right now. And the Kingsolver is pretty uplifting and thought-provoking (in a good way). :-)

R's Rue said...

I want to read the poetry.
www.rsrue.blogspot.com

Shari Burke said...

I don't even think I knew Barbara Kingsolver wrote poetry, but I have enjoyed some of her previous work, particularly Animal, Vegetable,Miracle. A friend sent me an email about the new poetry book, so I was thrilled to find it in the e-book section of the library website!

Lowcarb team member said...

A good selection of reads here Shari.

All the best Jan

Shari Burke said...

So many books, so little time! :-)

Joy said...

I found your book choices interesting for the info and perspective they would shine on the current situation in nations like the US who are running things off in a ditch. Particularly those who want to emulate the US (greediness, classism, fascism, etc) which is well beyond me when there are so many better and higher functioning nations to strive to be like.

An interesting combination of historical and current perspective and invariably how difficult things are for the 'winter feelings/stress' of most citizens here. (As you know these are my summer feelings as well because the summer is when everything is made worse by heat and light for those of us with inflammation and various sensitivities. It's measurable in VOC's and how the heat intensifies them and things like the barometric pressure. I can only get anything done at night in summer if it's not too hot.) It took me a long time to figure out how to talk about this post of yours because of the combination of issues and how perfectly they outline ways that some nations need to change.

I'm glad that you wrote about these books but like your other friend I might struggle to read the MT book. I'm so curious about it tho so I'm glad you did review it because I was really curious how much might be in there that we DONT already know or guess about? I keep thinking many of us probably could just assume how bad things really are/were in that family to create the guy in the Oval at this time, though I imagine she adds nuances we couldn't guess.

BTW I hope things are going ok there. We're dealing with the fires/smoke here. I know it's spreading east (and we need rain etc to put the fires out and clean the air). I have a lot of your posts to catch-up on. I hope the weather is treating you well!

Shari Burke said...

I hope you get some rain soon, Joy. Our daughter is not in immediate danger from the fires, but the smoke has been really bad--worst air quality in the world for a few days. Last I knew they were supposed to get some weather that would help push the smoke out.

The MT book was good. There wasn't really anything surprising in it. We can all see the mental illnesses and damage (if we choose to see--as far as his cult members, they will prefer not to see). What was interesting for me personally was that I saw a few similarities to my own family of origin. It reminded me again how glad I am that I was able to leave that toxic BS behind me and walk away from them.

We may be in the second wave here--young people in particular socialising too much. We had a bit of summerish weather, but that seems to be over now and the forecast is for rain and single digit (C) high temps in a few days. I am getting ready to celebrate the autumnal equinox and feeling grateful to be seeing the end of summer! Stay safe!

Joy said...

I don't know what area your daughter is, I've been posting the easterly spread for the last week plus. At first it looked like the whole WC from BC to Baja was on fire but without much spread. It even seemed to defy science because the coastal areas were often orange and red air quality where the interior areas while some were purple nearby was yellow - just so bazaar. (Oceans tend to make the air quality better.) The air quality was such that so many people were staying home as much as possible. I haven't been out in ages myself. I've been waiting for a few 'green days' to even open my window at night (not yet but maybe tomorrow).

Here's a good site for global air quality if it's of interest It was the only site I found that showed 'the whole coast' etc instead of just a few counties/regions. Some of my friends were fleeing the smoke and knowing where 'the clear spots were' and how they were developing was important. https://gispub.epa.gov/airnow/

I understand what you mean about the MT book. I have been getting better about recognizing that sort of thing myself. I knew I was aware of their issues and not wanting to emulate them in any way, but somehow because of the times and culture I grew up around, I hadn't really 'expressed it' in honesty. It hadn't occurred to me that 'being polite' or 'respectful' had basically been keeping me from speaking my truth. I thought it was some kind of difference in generational thinking, I wasn't thinking of it as 'so much more than that' that I know it now to be. If people don't stand for the right things they are showing who they truly are even in the midst of squashing/squelching of the people around them who are trying to elicit them to make a change. I was always controversial to their way of thinking, I thought that was sorta my whole purpose. Now tho I can openly say what things are or are not what they should be - but that probably comes more of reaching an age where candor is no longer 'disrespectful'.

"It's always the right time to do the right thing!" (It doesn't matter who it offends, they're already in the wrong mindset.)

I hope the second wave wont hit too hard, maybe a few localized outbreaks will raise awareness that the Virus doesn't care what anyone hopes is true - it spreads because people are risky and give it the chance to.

It may be very hard to keep people from escalating it through the holidays/New Years. Time will tell - hopefully we will all be able to stay safe either way!

Shari Burke said...

Yes, there comes a time in life, especially for women, when there are no more f**ks to give! :-)

Joy said...

I'm not sure if that time completely comes after we've become 'the elder generation' in the family; or if it can come any time, but I agree.