Monday, June 9, 2025

When the Circus Came to Town

 On Thursday morning, we had our large backpacks stuffed full of overnight essentials when we walked out the door to catch the bus. We were heading for our once and future village to get the keys, pay the first month's rent, and spend our first night in the cottage. Since we experienced the very late bus issue when we first attempted to go look at the cottage, we opted to take a different route this time--one that didn't involve buses originating in either Galway or Dublin and that were staying closer to the area. Fewer opportunities for roadworks, accidents, or other delays that way, we thought. This did mean that we'd have more time to hang around and wait, but that was OK--it was a pleasant day, there are nice areas to sit, and we brought books to read while we waited. We got to the small town where we used to live and settled in to wait. The bus we were waiting for was one we used to take all the time, but things were different now. The vacant hotel where we used to get the bus was now fully renovated and is no longer the bus stop. Instead, they've built a bus shelter down a short lane at the car park by the water. While we were sitting we saw other Local Link buses come and go. We also saw that the circus had come to town and was setting up in the car park. Our bus was scheduled to leave at 2:10. At 1:30, I started to wonder, because I realized that I hadn't seen the one that was supposed to arrive at 12:30 to drop people off. I walked over to the bus shelter, where a Local Link employee and the driver of another route were conversing. I asked if this was the spot where we should catch the Local Link 966. I was told that the following day, the bus would pick up and drop off in front of the hotel because of the circus. I wondered why he was telling me about the following day, but I simply asked, 'What about today?' I was assured that the bus would be at the very spot where we were standing at 2:10--probably even a few minutes early. You see where this is going. At around 2, we meandered over to the bus shelter where a couple of people were already waiting--elderly women with their shopping. More people showed up. The bus did not. Then we saw it coming. It proceeded to back into the far side of the car park, back up, and turn around, leaving the way it came and leaving us standing at the bus shelter. I left my pack where it was and started walking up the hill to Main St, figuring that if I could catch the driver, I could tell him/her that there were people waiting at the bus shelter. But as I was on my way, I saw the bus drive past. It was gone.

I went back to the shelter and called Local Link, telling them that they'd stranded several people and asking what was up. The very nervous fellow asked me to wait a minute, then came back and read what was clearly a script about how the bus stop location would be changed from midday Thursday through Sunday. I told him that there was no notification of this on the website, nor any signs in the bus shelter itself. Furthermore, I said I was told by two employees that the bus would pick us up at that spot at the regular time and that the driver was in the vicinity and would have seen us waiting before turning around and driving off. He asked if he could call me right back. Needless to say, I was unsurprised when I never heard from him again.

In the meantime, a guy showed up and tried to tell me that the bus hadn't left and it would be coming. I explained to him that it was gone and all the rest of it. He was angry. He called someone he knew to complain and then called Local Link. The woman he spoke to at Local Link told him that they put a notice on Facebook. He told her he wasn't on Facebook. The two elderly ladies got up to peer at the schedules on the shelter. They were waiting for a different bus that had already left from a different location. There was a guy there who called a friend and asked for a ride and he took the two ladies, too, which I though was nice. They were all going the same way. That left 4 of us--me, Bill, the guy who insisted the bus was coming, and a frail looking elderly gent with his shopping. The latter didn't seem to understand what was happening at first and when he realized he would have to find alternate transport was looking in his wallet, presumably to see how much cash he had for a taxi. I called a taxi guy we used to rely on in the past, but he was out of town on another job, so couldn't come. The four of us discussed our destinations and it turned out that the frail gent was to be dropped off on the way to our destination and the other guy, who I will call Bob, was going in the same general direction, not too far out of the way. He suggested we share a cab and he called a taxi driver he knows, named Frank. Frank was available and said he'd be there in 20 minutes. I called the letting agent to say we'd be a little late and he said that was fine because he had to go on the Irish language radio station at 3, so we should just let him know when we arrive. 

Frank showed up and as we were putting our packs into the boot of his car, the same Local Link employee that assured me the bus would be picking us up there at 2:10 rushed up with signs he'd quickly made on notebook paper with a pink highlighter, explaining about the changes. Better late than never. We squeezed into the taxi. Frank started to drive away. Then he asked, 'Didn't you two used to live here in that little place on Main St.? Well, yes indeed we did. I have no recollection of ever speaking to Frank before, but there it is. As we were on our way, Bob and Frank, having known each other for a while, were chatting about people and places they've known. Bob said, 'Hey, remember Peter Something?' Frank said he did and asked where he's living now. 'He's dead,' Bob replied. 'Ah, he's crossed the River Jordan,' said Frank. I was sitting there thinking how strange and yet kind of funny the whole situation was turning out to be (the part about poor Peter Something being dead was not funny, but sitting in the cab the conversation and the situation seemed kind of surreal). The frail gent got dropped off and seemed very happy. A little further down the road, we got dropped off and waved good-bye to our new acquaintances. A couple minutes later, just as I hit send on the message telling the letting agent we were there, he pulled up. We went inside and did what we had to do. It was an unexpected sort of day, but interesting. And we will laugh about it all for some time to come, I expect.

8 comments:

David M. Gascoigne, said...

You can laugh about it now, Shari, but I bet it was no laughing matter at the time. Being stranded is no fun. It makes me quite happy that I own a car!

Shari Burke said...

I was actually surprised to observe myself in the moment not being anxious, but rather moving pretty quickly into problem -solving mode. I was annoyed about the fact that they didn't adequately communicate, but I have low expectations when it comes to competence.🙂

One of the things we love about living here is that we do not need to own a car, thus we can avoid the many hassles that owning and operating one bring. And I hate driving. I stopped driving about 25 years ago when still in the US. It's more difficult there, but even so, I have never missed driving. Whatever works!

David M. Gascoigne, said...

I can see that you and Bill can manage well without a car, Shari, and from an environmental perspective you are doing the right thing. We lead different lives, however. A good deal of what I do, most of what I do in fact, involves driving to locations where there is no public transportation at all. Some of the areas where we go birding are quite remote and often we don’t even see another car, let alone a bus! We try as much as possible to fill the vehicle with like-minded friends, so that we at least mitigate our environmental impact, and we plant trees, or get involved in wetland cleanups, create pollinator gardens in public spaces etc, to compensate for our activities. And , most of us have now evolved to hybrid or electric vehicles. I am one of the laggards, but my next vehicle will certainly be more environmentally friendly.

Shari Burke said...

Exactly! People lead different kinds of lives and have different things available to them. For us, having good public transport is a must. I think everyone just needs to do what they can in their particular circumstances. I'm not judging, just observing that lives are different.

Jeanie said...

Oh Shari, it's one of those awful and yet in retrospect, not QUITE so bad, life stories! When I say I know exactly what you were feeling, I know EXACTLY what you were feeling, as the same thing happened to Rick and me in Bath after a rugby game and dinner. We were well in time for our early evening bus -- and it never came! Nor did the next one. Very worrying when you are living far out of town, have no phone with you that works in the UK! All worked well in the end, no bus but an angel in the same boat who lived not far from where we were going who shared her uber. We greatly enjoyed the company of the people we were stranded with -- but it was very worrying! I'm glad you arrived in time and all worked out in the end. (And yes, it is so frustrating when you communicate and nothing happens!)

Shari Burke said...

Oh wow, that would have been very distressing, being in an unfamiliar place and not having a UK phone. I'm glad your new acquaintance was there and happy to be helpful. We were in a small town we'd lived in before, had a phone, and some idea of the options available to us. Both of us ended up having unexpected pleasant experiences.
I could see why they changed the bus stop for the duration of the circus, but they should have done a better job of letting people know. Even their own employees didn't know what was going on and a post on Facebook is extremely inadequate. At least the guy finally put up the signs. Things should be back to normal by now.

Lowcarb team member said...

You can laugh about it now but not nice when you are going through this type of situation. If only communication had been better.

All the best Jan

Shari Burke said...

Yes! lack of proper communication was the problem for sure. If they had posted a notice in the bus shelter, no one would have been stranded! Although I must say that for the bus the other people were waiting for, the temporary pick-up and drop off spot was too far away for people like the elderly women with their shopping. It was on the edge of town and too far for them to walk, especially with their bags. I was glad that they got a ride. It was nice to see the kindness of what appeared to be a stranger to them.